April 1st, 2011 at 12:18 am
It easily might & can be quite a bit more complicated than this, but one perspective is that if they’re Not Ultimately F*ckable, they’re really Un-dateable too. I mean, truly, why bother? Friends W/O Benefits? Mommy who cooks & cleans? This is the other side of the whole dysfunctional ‘Madonna/Whore’ complex. If Jerry Hall’s momma can get this straight in the 1950s (if not earlier) why oh why are we so damn mystified?
So if you’re incapable of an adult intimate relationship? Get some therapy, please. And/Or start choosing better, more sane, non destructive & Non crazy partners. Or avoid abusive ones that try and unconsciously recapitulate your abusive pasts. It’s not only part & parcel of growing up & loving AS an adult. And sorry, it’s actually required in almost all instances for one of those adult intimate relationships.
So again, the answer to the question is Not Either OR, but Both And! Most guys? Prefer BOTH F*ckable & Datable gals. Preferably in the same person & body too. Ditto for the personality, 1 & the Same! Cheers, ‘VJ’
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